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| User: | secrets2bear (12478076) |
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| Name: | secrets to bear | |||
| Website: | OMG Body Mass Index | |||
| Location: | Canada | |||
| Birthdate: | 1981 | |||
| Bio: |  The women linger at the water's edge, and they are stuning in the most unusual way: large women, voluptuous, abundant, delighted. They lounge along the river bank, they lift their arms toward the sun, their hair ripples down their backs, which are smooth and broad and strong. There is a softness in the way they move, and also strength and sensuality, as though they revel in the feel of their own heft and substance. Step back from the canvas, and observe, think, feel. this is an image of bounty, a view of female physicality in which a woman's hungers are both celebrated and undifferentiated, as though all her appetites are of a piece, the physical and the emotional entwined and given equal weight. Food is love on this landscape, and love is sex, and sex is connection, and connection is food; appetites exist in a full circle, or in a sonata where eating and touching and making love and feeling close are all distinct chords that nonetheless meld with and complement one another. Prologue from Appetites: why women want
 Women should learn self-defense. Women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. Women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. Women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. Fuck, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all. Instead of that bullshit, how about: If a woman is drunk, don't rape her. If a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her. If a women is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her. If a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her. If a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't rape her. If a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend, whom you're still hung up on, don't rape her. If a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her. If a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her. If a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her. If a woman is in a coma, don't rape her. If a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her. If a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her. If a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her. If your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her. If your step-daughter is watching tv, don't rape her. If you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her. If your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend. If your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police. If your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and it's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and tell the guy he's a rapist. Tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, and sons of friends it's not okay to rape someone. Don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape. Don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x. Don't imply that it's in any way her fault. Don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl. Don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can help yourself. If you agree, re-post it. It's that important. | |||
| Memories:: | 5 entries | |||
| Pictures: | over 40 public | |||
| Interests: | 58: androgyny, art, ballet, body mods, books, butterflies, chainsmoking, coffee, dolores haze, dropkick murphys, eating disorders, ed-nos, ednos, erotica, escapism, euphoria, faeries, fishnets, flogging molly, gay rights, green tea, hair dye, independent films, insomnia, jack johnson, kittens, kubrick, leonard cohen, lesbianism, lipstick, literature, lolita, macintosh, manicures, mod, mood swings, neo-swing, nip tuck, nymphets, ocd, photography, pin-up girls, pro-choice, punk, ramones, reading, salvador dali, size 0, skin and bones, swing, tattoos, the l word, the last unicorn, the neverending story, waking life, weight loss, ♥, | |||
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| Also Friend of: | 1: zillah77 | |||
| Member of: | 10: _realthin, bleed_me_skinny, ed_grocery, ed_progresspics, greys_rating, ihearttattoos, juddd, maryahornbacher, read_ed_books, thinspiring | |||
| Account type: | Plus Account | |||
